Heather Mundell posted a terrific article on careerhubblog.com: Job Search Tips for Introverts. Many introverts don’t even bother with networking because it’s so difficult for them. And even extraverts can become introverts when faced with a roomful of people they don’t, but should, know.
When I read this post, I thought Heather must have been watching me at SVASE meetings. I mean, most of what she says is exactly what I do. At first I felt guilty about my networking, but I’ve given myself permission to go to these events and not meet everyone in the room. I’ve always been good at mingling till I found somebody interesting, and then spending some time in deeper discussion with that person. Lo and behold, that’s one of her techniques.
Another thing I’ve found essential is research. I was running a small company until about a year ago. Like many small business managers, I didn’t have much time to look around at what was going on in the tech world. I was mainly interested in how we were going to make the next payroll.
When I started networking, I found that I didn’t understand much of what I was hearing deep in the heart of Silly Valley. So I started my immersion therapy. Incessant reading, trying dozens of new sites and software systems. Thinking, integrating my thoughts. Reading more blogs.
In my workshops, I make sure that everyone is set up on Google Reader with at least one RSS feed before they leave. For most this will be a job search category on Craig’s List. But I also try to get people set up on Techcrunch or Techmeme (or if they’re not technical, I might suggest the New York Times). I subscribe to 56 feeds, and I get hundreds of articles a day, most of which I ignore after seeing the title.
Deep immersion in all these articles got me up to speed fast. After about 2 months, I found that I could go to networking meetings and understand almost everything. By the 3rd month, I could participate in conversations, and frequently contribute something.
That was my ticket to networking. I put in my homework, got some training from Dan Rink on the techniques of networking, and I jumped right in.
Do I feel comfortable? Not really. Am I functional in this setting? I think so. I’ve made some good connections, I’ve gotten enough knowledge to follow and contribute. And in turn, I teach other people how to do this, which is ultimately rewarding to me as a citizen of the high-tech community.
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